[Mister R]

First, don’t make her age and last name a big deal right now, especially since there’s no commitment between you two yet.
Second, she was already clear that she’s not ready to enter a relationship. She said it directly to you.
So at this point, it’s your choice whether to continue or look for someone else. If you decide to continue, you need to be clear with yourself that you might spend a lot of time waiting for her to be ready, and there’s also a chance she may never be ready.
In short, you’re taking a risk, and there’s a high chance of losing. That’s why you need to think about it very carefully.

[Mister R]

First of all, you need to figure out what is more important to you, whether it’s your friendship or your desire for it to become something more.
Because once you decide to make the first move, there are two possibilities: he might like you back, or he might not. But one thing is certain, your friendship could change or even be lost. And even if you manage to save it, it will no longer be the same as before.
So think carefully about what matters more to you.

[Mister R]

What you can do is act more mature in your behavior and the way you speak so he won’t treat you like a child. Maybe he’s doing that because he sees you as immature. He’s older than you and has more experience, so that might be why he treats you that way.

[Mister R]

First of all, you’re right, girl, that it doesn’t make sense to risk everything for someone you only talk to online. Actually, it’s still very difficult to take that risk even if you have met in person, because what’s at stake is your entire family. There is no certainty in any relationship, and the hard part is that once you choose this path, there is no turning back, and you may end up with no family to return to.

You’re also right, boy, it might be better to just let everything go. Have you noticed that it almost feels like fate itself is stopping you? You don’t even live together yet, but you already have so many problems and doubts. What more when you’re actually together? That’s when the real relationship truly begins.

[Mister R]

Thirteen years without your wife experiencing orgasm is indeed a very long time. But at least now, I can see some improvement, her diet is better, she has lost weight, and she’s healthier compared to before. Also, she is now more open with you.
I think it would be better to keep a positive mindset instead of focusing on the problem, so you can concentrate on what you can do moving forward. You can do research or even consult experts, any ideas you gather can be worth trying. Just keep putting in the effort and don’t give up.

[Mister R]

You’re on the right path, just enjoy yourself and don’t isolate yourself or keep yourself stuck feeling down.
The guy you’re talking about, give him a chance so the two of you can get to know each other better. You never really know, maybe you are truly meant for each other.

[Member]

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