[Yassy May]

All the signs that he’s cheating on you are already in your story, and yet you’re still there. My advice is simple: just break up with him.

He doesn’t respect you, and you don’t deserve that. You’re only 19—you will still meet someone who will value you more, respect you, and not hurt you.

Don’t hold on to him. He is not the only man in the world, and he is not worthy of you.

[Yassy May]

I think what he’s saying is true, and that he really does care about you. It seems like he just wants a more stable situation—where both of you are in a better place and closer to each other. I think he just doesn’t want what happened before between you to happen again.
Long-distance relationships are really difficult, and that’s the reality. Not all relationships succeed or last in that kind of setup.
So it might be better to just respect his decision for now. You can continue your connection with him, but don’t close your heart off to other possibilities, because there’s no certainty here. In other words, stay open to whatever may come.

[Yassy May]

You’ve only known each other for three weeks, and you’ve only met once—and he even hugged you before you said goodbye. My advice is not to get too carried away by what happened, because it’s still very early.
Just let him move at his own pace and in the way he knows how, and you should also avoid focusing too much on this. Act naturally and just go with the flow. You can simply wait for him to start initiating things more clearly if he is truly interested in you.
In my opinion, he probably does like you too.

[Yassy May]

First of all, you haven’t done anything wrong. From what I can see, this man really does seem to like you. My advice is to just let him be the one to initiate things for now. He might still be a bit unsure about himself at the moment.

Just continue to show him that the difference in education is not an issue for you. Keep showing interest in him as a signal, until he builds up the confidence to be clear about his true intentions toward you.

[Yassy May]

You’re already stalking someone and your interest becomes weird when you keep repeatedly bothering them even though they no longer want it. In other words, you are not respecting their wishes and you are still forcing what you want instead.

It also becomes stalking when you monitor everything about them without their permission.

[Yassy May]

Don’t be nervous—just be natural. A relationship like that is actually easier to make work if you’re highly compatible in so many ways.

Don’t overthink what might happen. It’s better to just enjoy the moment right now. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. That won’t help—you’ll end up thinking less clearly instead of more clearly.

[Yassy May]

You should end it. You already let it go on for five years. Long-distance relationships are really difficult to make work—in truth, they’re hard to sustain. That’s just the reality of it.
So it would be better to end it now. Talk to him properly and calmly, and explain everything you feel and your reasons for why you can’t continue anymore.

[Yassy May]

Maybe he’s just busy and doesn’t really have much time to text, or maybe he’s just not the type who enjoys texting. That’s why he might seem cold to you, because he isn’t able to show how he feels through messages alone.
My advice is to pay more attention to his actions instead. Take things slowly for now and really get to know each other better, so there won’t be any regrets later on.

[Yassy May]

You just need to keep trying and learn from every rejection so that next time you won’t make the same mistakes. It’s normal to be rejected and to make mistakes—you just need to learn how to accept them so you can regain your confidence.

If you fall ten times, you need to stand up an eleventh time. You can do it—just keep going and keep fighting.

[Yassy May]

You’re both at the right age and already independent, so the age gap isn’t really the issue here. What matters is how much you like her, and I also think she might be interested in you.
My advice is to ask her out on a proper, formal date—something more romantic where your intention is clear and direct. Don’t waste time. Do it now while the feelings are still strong.

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