[confusedguyhere2011]

Yes i understand what you mean & thanks for the advice. Now tonight i get an email from her. The last time i talked to her was a month ago & that was when she called the police & i got in trouble for violating the order. She emailed me tonight saying that i have to leave her alone & she doesn’t love me & will never ever be with me ever again & that i had so many years to change & move in with her & go to counseling & do the right things. I already know this. Alot of times when we got in fights in the past even before all of this restraining order stuff she would say she never wants to see me again & she will call the police if i contact her & she is movin on with her life. I understand all of that. Why would she email me after a month just out of the blue & write that stuff? Is she trying to get me to contact her in some way? Before when she wrote that stuff i usually would go apologize & we would work things out but now i can’t & won’t. I also understand if she is moving on but i already knew that. Just wondering why she would send me an email like that after a month when i knew all of this already? Is she just still mad & want to vent to me or is she trying to get me to contact her back in some way because this is how she used to be in the past? Not saying this is the case now or not, i really don’t know. In the past sometimes we wouldnt talk for weeks or months at a time. She also said she would drop the order if i moved in, on many occassions. Is she sending me an email because she is just very upset or because she is trying to bait me into something or what? I just don’t understand why she would do it out of the blue a month later. Any advice at what she might be thinking or why she did it after i already knew all of this?

[confusedguyhere2011]

This seems a lil complicated. Every guy is different but i think he will contact you again. I kind of did the same thing as he did. I wouldn’t contact my g/f sometimes for days or weeks. It wasn’t because i didn’t care about her. At the time I wanted to hangout with my friends but also have a g/f. She didn’t like goingout all the time & i did. I didn’t go out & hit on girls, i just liked goingout, having a few beers with my buddies & having a good time. Maybe he is very overwhelmed at this time. I think though since his dad is sick that he would want to talk to you, just for the fact that you can be a friend & help him trhough this tough time. I think he does care about you & will get back in contact with you. That’s just my opinion. I know it can be hard all the waiting, wondering & worrying. Hang in there though

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