[eswizz]

Hello, I read your book today and I found some parts really interesting. I would have to say that once I am on a date I am fine. I do all the right gentleman things that you talked about. The problem that I have is reading them, if they really like and if they want to go on another date. As you can see from my posts, the girl that I went out with last Tuesday, I can not read. She said she liked me(after a few drinks) and went on a date with me and told me she had a great time and would like to do it again. Well I made the mistake of leaving it up to her to decide when she is “free” . And now I have not heard anything for over a week. And now I’m not sure if I should contact her again, since she said that she would let me know when shes free. What do you think, is she just trying to avoid me or is she playing hard to get? I would like to call her later today and ask her to go out on Sunday.

Thanks!

[eswizz]

Great thank you! I will buy that book tonight. I did ask her out again and she agreed and said she’ll tell me when she is free. That’s the only real thing that bugged me, that I have to wait for her to get back to me now. I have only had two real girlfriends and I am 26. It’s not that I haven’t met women, because I have been on many dates with different women. Its just that I really really like this one like my other two girlfriends when I met them, we get along great and have a lot in common. Its not that I am picky, its that when I fall for a girl, I fall fast. The only downfall is she just turned 21 however she isn’t a big partier.

Thanks again!

[eswizz]

Thank you for the response. I did ask her out for a second date last night. I told her that I had a great time the other night and asked her if she wanted to do something on Sunday or another day next week(I did this through texting which probably isn’t the best way). She replied with “Yea I did to. Okay yea for sure, ill let ya know when im free”. So I said “Sounds Good”.

Do you think that I should wait until she contacts me before I talk to her again, to see if she is really interested? I guess I am a bit confused because in the past after a couple dates, the girl has texted me on my way home telling me that she had a great time.

Thanks for the advice!

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