[9935natasha]

Hi April,
I broke up with my ex in JAN 2013. we have been good friends ever since… it was a smooth break up. we were better as friends and not as much compatible as a couple .I was willing to try to make it work , but he suggested that we are better as friends so we called it off. I was a little hurt, but not as much as id expected… I was able to reconcile to myself that its better to call off something earlier than putting my all into it and eventually having another heartbreak. I knew from the start that I was totally the opposite of his “type” of girl…( tall, blonde, busty is what he likes)

Anyway we have been in touch and hanging out together quite a bit…. and id even allow him to crash in my spare bedroom literally 1 night every week on nights when he’d be too drunk to go all the way home after a party etc, he even invited me to his bday party…. and we all had a great night.

But just yesterday, he asked me if he could stay over in my spare room after he’d been drinking with friends. As usual I agreed, he came home around 4am , only this time….with another girl!( I did not see him face to face … but I could hear them( 😯 ) through my wall) I was a little bit upset by this and I let him know the next day by an SMS text that my house is not a hotel! and that he should at least let me know he’d be getting a guest to my place!

we are really good friends, and I really do hope it stays that way, I don’t mind him getting physical with other girls, but not in my house….I do not think im ready for that….it still does hurt a bit…. WHY AM I FEELING THIS WAY??. Was my confronting him about how I felt about it ok?? don’t I deserve at least that much respect in this friendship….
could u tell me how to deal with this? and not sound to clingy to him….and not let this great friendship end?

[9935natasha]

he has know me for a year before we started dating as a friend… but then he was with his ex.

So how am i supposed to tell him anything without it sounding like im trying to control him???? also do the dynamics change because he has commited to me ? do i have reason to confront him on how im feeling about this new girl?

[9935natasha]

Hi,
Yes I can open thsi copy.Just received it.. cant wait to start reading.

Happy holidays!

[9935natasha]

Hi april,
Im really confused as he has proposed to me and told all his friends that we are a couple…much earlier than i had a chance to tell my friends…the party night we even walked right up to the door of my friends place before he thought he was too drunk to meet them properly thats why i let it go… he even introduces me at the pub to his buddies as his “missus” . we were thinking of moving into a new place and he even asked me if like to move in with him…
But this was all before she moved in…🙁

[9935natasha]

Hi APRIL,
I purchased your “[color=#FF0080][b]think and date like a man [/b][/color]” book.
You provide wonderful advice
Merry Christmas.

Natasha

[9935natasha]

Its like he took me to the highest mountain, … showed me the beautiful world., and said, “Dear, This is what you can’t have

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