[9935natasha]

hi guys,

after splitting up with a guy i was dating in october….i met a new guy, who showed so much interest in me.. hed shower me with so much attention and compliments, and wed both the same intrest in movies, animals… evrytinh.. it was amazing… hed even tell me why he broke up with his exof 5years….which was a very personal matter and hed not evn mentioned to any of his close matesso i thot he was really interested….but he never proposed…i thot this would come gradually and we beagn secretly dating…. we have common friends, all of them knew there was a spark there..but v never discosed that we were hooking up …i grew realy close to him and satred telling him all my problems and worries and hed help me feel bettr.(beacuse we are students studyin abroad most of r friends hav left back for home and none of my other close frends are here so v got really close….)
then one day at a house party…he got really drunk n started flirtin with my housemate(who iv been havin isssues with that he knows about) and i ended up finding them makin out inone of the bedrooms….i was sooooooooooo saddened and angry, but wen i realised her bf was heading right in i pulled th guy i like off the bed and told my roomies bf that hed passed out ont h floor… he believed that coz evrybody was super drunk taht nite….
(shed always been super flirty with him but hed always let me kno aftrwrds how much he disliked her)

neway,i left for home that nite,and th whole nite i cried feeling so betrayed and back stabbed….(by him that is …i dont expect much from her so with her i was just annoyed )

in th mornin wen my roomie got back i told her not to drink if sh couldnt handle it….
the following mornin he sends me anothr lovy dovy msg greeting me good mornin..( which he did evryday)

wen i told him that evning abt wt he had done he was soo pissed at me and wasa annoyed taht id confronted my roomie….i found this soo weird…the messages stopped coming n he satyed pised at me for 2-3days…. for somthing that i dint understand…i dint evn confront him in a harsh manner.. i just told him wat had happnd th prev nite..

then he realised his mistake and apologisded thru a msg..but somthin had changed.. the misiin u mss stoped comin n i knew somthin had changed….he evn stpod replyin to my msgs like he did earlier ever so promptly…

so the day befor yest i went to another frends party….and after getin kinda high i msged him that i missed him n that i felt somthing had changed and that he wasnt acin gth same…. he dint reply…
i even called but he never pikd my call..
the next mornin i caled him n he sounded annoyed.. but he said it was because he wasnt well…
a few hours later he msged me tat he dint like that id msged him theat hed changed. and told me that i dint hav anyrite to say somthin like this coz i wasnt his girfrend and am just a good frend.. and that i shouldnt expect much from him….
i was so heartbroken n i toldhim that ideven confront a friend if they were acting wierd without any reason…he replied sayin he dint think hed changed.i cried and cried n cried my heart out alon in my room th whollle day 🙁((

lat in the nite i get a msg from wishin me goodnite darlin….

pls hellp… i sooo don not understnd wats happningggggggg.
why is he acting this way n what should i do now….is it just sex that he wants from me…. was evrithn just an act to get me into bed????

pls help me….🙁

[9935natasha]

Its like he took me to the highest mountain, … showed me the beautiful world., and said, “Dear, This is what you can’t have

[Ask April Masini]

I’m sorry to tell you this but your ex-boyfriend is a player who used you, made out with your roommate knowing you were at the same party, and after you confronted him, cut off from you. He’s not interested in you the same way you are in him — in fact he’s not interested in you at all for anything but sex and a good time. He doesn’t want intimacy and he doesn’t want responsibility for your feelings or for a relationship with you.

I know you’re hurt because you were open and honest with him, but you picked the wrong guy. Don’t try and make it work with him — you’ll just get hurt further.

Instead, learn from your mistakes, and choose more wisely next time.

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