[Tommy32]

When we get married, I can petition My Boss to move one of us. This could happen, but the Army doesn’t have to. Most likely we wouldn’t live together until July 2012. I don’t know if her Mother will still be with her. To be honest with you. I could deal with her, but she makes everyone miserable. I know it is a strain to be in the middle. I suppose, I could just ignore her. My Fiance has been fighting with her also and has talked about sending her back. We will see. I try to play neutral in it. I’m afraid that if I say I would like for her to go back and something happened, then I would get some blame. Can I fix this? I don’t want my Fiance to be going through this either.

[Tommy32]

We are in the Army stationed in Germany. She is stationed about 2 hours from me. Her Mother was raised in Mexico and only completed 5th grade. She has never had a good job and lives beyond her means. She had to file for bankruptcy and couldn’t take care of herself. My Fiance is the Oldest and the other children will not or can not help her. My Fiance also raised her youngest brother because her Mother couldn’t. The Father is not in the picture except for a phone call occasionally. Her Mother watches the kids now that she is there, but they were in daycare prior to her arrival. We got engaged in Prague last October, we plan on getting married this Summer. We won’t live together here in Germany. The Army is not obligated to move us together until the next assignement. We leave Germany in July 2012.

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