I appreciate your input sincerely. I totally am taking in to consideration what you say, but I can’t help but remember that my own experiences tell me when a girl likes me she blows up my phone. That is so not the case here. Maybe I am wrong, but to more fully explain what I mean I should say this: I feel like her interest level is linked to her contact patterns and I think both are linked to her view of this relationship as casual. And I think she views this relationship as casual because she has a limited sense of permanence and stability in New York (where we live). In fact, she is moving (only about 45 minutes away) and she told me this without a reference to a precise date something like two weeks ago. I found out through a 3rd party update on facebook just yesterday that her move will be this weekend and there will be a party. I’ve yet to be invited, let alone contacted and told about the date she will move. Sorry to have not fully explained in the first post, but as you can see things are developing by the day. Does any of this change your response? Thank you so much.
M