[coacj]

I honestly was not flirting with her sister, we jus spoke about a picture that caught our attention on Facebook. Maybe she is a little insecure. But gabreilla responded back to my text and this is what she said

Gabreilla- “Hey handsome. I apologize but I’m not ready for that just yet. I want to get to know you better. I also don’t kiss right away. I have to really spend more time with the person. I’m not very sexual especially because it’s the beginning and I’m super careful. If it happens it happen. Don’t push just let it flow”.

This is what I said- “I agree wit that But all I ask for is communication, and that goes for anyone that I’m in close contact with. cause if either one of us does something that is off key and no one says anything or why they did it, it looks like game playin and I’m not down wit that. So jus be up front wit me on an I’ll be upfront wit u”.

What do u think of my response to her

[coacj]

I honestly was not flirting with her sister, we jus spoke about a picture that caught our attention on Facebook. Maybe she is a little insecure. But gabreilla responded back to my text and this is what she said

Gabreilla- “Hey handsome. I apologize but I’m not ready for that just yet. I want to get to know you better. I also don’t kiss right away. I have to really spend more time with the person. I’m not very sexual especially because it’s the beginning and I’m super careful. If it happens it happen. Don’t push just let it flow”.

This is what I said- “I agree wit that But all I ask for is communication, and that goes for anyone that I’m in close contact with. cause if either one of us does something that is off key and no one says anything or why they did it, it looks like game playin and I’m not down wit that. So jus be up front wit me on an I’ll be upfront wit u”.

[coacj]

If that’s the case then every girl I met in the past thought i had a bunch of female friends. I get this from almost every girl I meet. I’m not tryin to sound coky or arragant but I can’t help it if I look a certain way. I sent a text to gabreilla to ask her why she did that tues night but I didn’t hear from her yet.

[coacj]

Yea but she told me she thinks I’m a nice guy, but u still think that she would see me as a player? I know the 2nd date we had she said ” I know u got female friends” and I said ” where did that come from? Cause I don’t”. She then said “come on u a good looking guy, u look like u would have options”. But I didn’t take her serious I thought she was just joking lol

[coacj]

I spoke with Tiffany today and I don’t know what to make of this. I had brought up horoscopes and I mentioned leos because I’m a Leo. She said I don’t know I think me and leos would bump heads because I dated one and it didn’t work out. So then I said well I’m a Leo, and that I don’t know that guy but I’m different from him. So tiffany said I don’t know I think if we were in a relationship we would bump heads. I said maybe, maybe not, nobody knows cause were not in one. So then I asked her about sat night. She said yea I had a good time we went out as friends, I’m not rushing nothing but as we hangout we get to know each other. I said yea I’m not rushing anything either. I told her I’m feelin you but I want to take it slow as well. She didn’t say if she liked me or not, it’s kinda up in the air. I mean I don’t know if I said the right thing but I had to speak my mind. Then I said to myself if she wasn’t curious about Me then why would she try to get back in touch wit me for the 3rd time. I don’t know what to make of this, what do you think of this?

[coacj]

Ok thanks 😉

[coacj]

I’ve always heard stories from guys saying they chased a woman for months and i would say to myself is he doin the right thing? But sometimes the guys ended up wit the women. Then i would hear women say how a guy was chasing them or the guy was blowing up their phone and I took that as women losing respect for those guys so I said to myself I’ma do the opposite. So most of my life women would tell me I’m too layed back and couldn’t figure me out. it’s hard since I’ve stuck to my guns the whole time but I wanna change, it’s gonna be a process but I wanna stay consistent.

[coacj]

Thanks, it’s just that I never persued women hard cause I never wanted to look like I was chasing them. But I’ve been told in the past that my personality is layed back but that I’m not that aggressive. And actually Tiffany told me last summer that I wasn’t aggressive either, but that was when I wasn’t sure if I liked her. So it’s hard for me to do it because I always think the woman isn’t interested if I gotta put work into it.In the past if it was taking to long I stopped showing the woman attention and some of the women actually got a little attitude that I stopped. But I didn’t understand why they would if they wasn’t giving me anything to work with. Im tryin to be consistent, it’s new for me. Like when should she start back calling me first or is it always me?

[coacj]

Thanks for the advice. I’ve gotten women but never pursued them hard. I guess because of a ego problem I had. I always thought I shouldn’t have to put in so much work to get a woman. But I’ve been told in the past that I wasn’t agressive enough when it came to that. So I wanna change my old ways because I don’t want to be single forever lol. My plan for tiffany is to just be consistent. Not be too aggressive and blow up her phone, but consistent contact everyday, a call or text in the early day and a call later on in the day.

[coacj]

Hey April, I know it’s been a while. But I have been talking to DJ but it’s been dragging. I asked her out twice but she said she would let me know but I didn’t hear anything. I told her I was interested in her an that was my reason for asking her out, she didn’t turn me down tho, it’s like she’s leaving it a mystery. I gave her my number. When I spoke to her last tues she was smiling alot an couldn’t stay in one place almost like if she was nervous. She kept asking me the same questions like ” did you work Monday?, how come you didn’t work Monday?, So you didn’t want to work Monday?” it was weird but that’s what she was stuck on. She then told me that she was talking to a guy an that it was going good, so I said to myself ” ok I’ma chill for now an not ask her out”. So when I saw her Saturday I said how u doin to her and kept on walking and she stop me an said “oh I don’t get a kiss from you anymore” infront of everybody like if she was shown off. So then I told her I see your getting confident now” an she started stuttering her words. When I saw her yesterday she gave me a hug and she started asking me the same questions again. Like what time you came into work? I said 2pm. Then she asked me so was you suppose to come at 2pm? I got a little annoyed an said ” Yea I was supposed to!!”. April why does she keep asking me the same questions? Is it cause she’s shy or nervous around me an doesn’t know what to say?

[coacj]

Hi april
Before i left the job i was in conversation with her, and before she went back to work I told her yesterday that someday when were both closing we can grab a bite to eat an she said yea ok after I come back from my vacation we can. Cause this week I start my vacation. But she did say yes so I’ll see what happens when I get back from vaca.

[coacj]

Hi April, I didn’t get to ask her out because I didn’t feel like it was the right place or time. But I did ask her what she ment when she said she was uncomfortable. And she said that shes not uncomfortable, she said when I hug her it catches her by surprise and that she feels bashful. She also said that I never hug her. But we both know that Ive hugged her a couple of times and she gave me postive feed back from it so I don’t know what she’s talking about. But she said that she feels funny an bashful when I give her hugs but she’s ok with me giving her hugs.

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