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    desertmama2010
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    LOl no, it’s not me. I wouldn’t put up with it and I don’t need drama in my life. This, sadly, is my cousin’s relationship. She doesn’t seem to want to break away (even though every time they break up she says she hates him and is “done”). Five minutes after saying she’s done with him, they are back together (that’s a slight exaggeration, but not by much). People have tried talking to her, but see, we don’t understand, they are IN LOVE!!!!!

    I’m guessing that there are just some people who think that all the heightened emotions, the adrenaline and anger and anxiety and nerves are love. They get bored with everyday, calm, sensible life so they seek high drama to fill a void. That’s my theory anyway. I didn’t mention it, but both of them are also alcoholics and substance abusers. Not much of a surprise there, I’m sure. Also, her family hates him and his family hates her…so that adds to their fantasy of “us against the world” and helps to bind them together.

    She wants kids with this guy. God help those kids…

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