[color=#4080FF]Hi…sounds to me like she’s very confused. And there are SO many factors contributing to it! And she’s only 19 on top of all that. I certainly didn’t have things figured out when I was 19 (in my 40s now). Could she be getting pressure from her family?….the previous boyfriend?….something else? People don’t change their minds that abruptly about someone, unless that someone has done something. So sounds like to me, it is coming from another source. I would give her some space…she will let you know if she still cares for you. Nothing can keep you apart if it’s really love, and on the other hand….always remember this in case you need it down the road…if it’s not right for one of you, then it’s just not right. And it shouldn’t be a guessing game. You cannot make someone love you, nor would you want to. That only means that someone would be settling for less than they truly deserve. Just give this some time. It’s very early, and she’s still giving you mixed signals…just keep your cool, keep your head, mostly just listen, and give it some space…time away always gives clarity. Wish you the very best 🙂 [/color]
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