[mysterymami]

I agree with April for sure. Do not nag this man! I lost a really great guy bc of nagging and clingyness. Men absolutely hate that. If he says that he wants to be with you but is not ready to be engaged, back off a bit and try to be more positive instead of casting all of your thoughts and worries out on him. You are probably moving out of the honeymoon phase and so naturally all the mushy, gushy stuff decreases. Its not because he doesn’t want you or is losing interest. I am sure of that. Be the person he fell in love with and counteract some of those worries/negative thoughts with positive ones. Remember this too…Men love a confidence! Be confident in yourself and your place in his life.

[mysterymami]

I am really sorry this happened to you but yes first impressions are everything. Not saying it is totally on you but there definately sounds like there should have been more interaction with you and him on the first meeting. After all, he was there for you right? I have learned myself the hard way that guys truly do not like a clingy woman and run at the first sight of one. The best way to handle a situation like this is…since he left without saying goodbye–no contact for a few days. Let him come to you because he was in the wrong. That is just rude. Look at it like this…him deciding not to talk to you anymore could be a blessing in disguise because he sounds a bit shady. In the future, remember less is more when it comes to txts and phone calls.

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