[always confuse]

Hi April,
I guess my thing is that im not sure if we are even “boyfriend/girlfriend” and ive never been in the situation where the intense making out preceded the “what we are exactly” so im a bet confused because i think i do like him and i surely enjoy making out with him lol but i dont want to be the girl who’s just making out to make out w/o really knowing where whatever we have is going …
and its weird because we seem to have something for instance he’ll keep me posted on his activities of the day or he’ll come over when i ask him to and stuff and hell make little comments (like this one time we were talking about calling back n stuff… n he said “yea im bad at this, u have to change that” and i said maybe i should n he answered ” yes u should”) lol like that which would lead to think that maybe we are headed down relationship road or something like that but then he’ll pull out and act all friendly/casual … so im thinking i should just ask him flat out “what are we doing exactly” or something like that but i choke every time so i need to know what to do …
thank u
always confused! 😕

[always confuse]

Hi April, the advice u gave me about my friend worked perfectly =) now he barely mentions her name when with me and i must say i practically stole him lol (but she doesn’t mind because that was her goal (she said) lol) … he is really nice and attentive =) and unlike most guys he actually tries to please u …
my issue is now that we’ve gotten closer, (we live about 30-35 mns from each other and he comes by all the time or if i ask him to come he does …. picks me up from school … and stuff like that) and by closer i mean kissing and making out and all … my problem is i am not one to have make out sessions just to have them and quite frankly i am pretty shocked that i’m the situation but … so April how do i make sure it doesn’t become some casual thing? and that i’m not the “make out girl”???
Thank u
Always confused …

[always confuse]

Hi April,
I tried it and its working (i think) 😉 lol … i did it once on the phone and when i change the subject he didn’t insist, also we were chilling and something came up and he said to call her so we would tell her and i didn’t say no but i hesitated like “really!!” and he said u don’t have to call her if don’t want to =) … so yay fingers crossed 🙂
a little less confused 😉

[always confuse]

Thank you i’m going to try it and let you know =)

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