[jamie5]

Hey april!
I’m writing to you for more much needed advice. Since the last time I wrote you things between my boyfriend ad I have gotten way worse. A few weeks after my last post to you everything went down hill dramatically. I did take your advice last time but things just got worse. My bf completly stopped communicating with me, would not do his part in making our relationship work and even stoped having sex with me. I got tired of it all and broke up with him. We continued to live together for a few weeks until he told me he needed space from me and that I should move out until we got our new home a week or so before the birth of our son. So I moved out. Keep in mind I was accusing him of cheating due to everything on his part. Anywho, a few weeks after moving out I found out he was in a relationship with a girl he met online, on the exact site I found him on prior to all of this. When I confronted him with it he lied to me about everything. I knew he was lying because I actually contacted this girl. I felt I had the right to since he was telling me he still planned on making me his wife and he loves me. Yet he’s seeing another girl. When he found out this girl and I were talking he broke up with her. But just recently him and I started talking about making things work etc etc but this girl continues to tell me he still talks to her. He denies it of course. Both this other girl and I want to be with him. so I know it is a possibilty she could be lying to me. But what I just don’t understand is if he wants to be with me like he says why can’t he just be with me? We’ve definitly had our ups and downs both his and my fault but can his actions be justified in some way? Does my past mistakes give him right to do all of this? Should I just let go of him for once and all or hang in there and wait for him to want me again? Since I broke up with him he tends to throw that in my face a lot. And once I found out he was dating I started dating a guy aswell which he found about through my family he was not happy about this. And even threated the guy if I didn’t stop seeing him. So there’s everything. I hope you can help me better than I’ve been helping myself.

[jamie5]

Hey april,
Since I’ve wrote and recived your input(even though this was only last week) things have already gotten better between my man and I. We actually sat down and talked about everything in our relationship, which we haven’t done in a long time. During this sit down together he deleted his social networking account he was on. I also have been taking your advice and have been home. Which he loves. And for the first time in a long time he has taken the iniative for us to spend a weekend together alone. So things are going good now, and I expect it to continue that way. Thanks for your advice!

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