Since I am going through a bad relationship time myself I am not necessarily the best one to tell you what to do. But what I WILL tell you is that asking him for counseling is not a bad idea. My parents have been together for 33 years and my mom has always told me that counseling before you get married is a good idea.
He seems like he is being very selfish.
I am not a counselor by any means but maybe he has an alcohol problem and is depressed, and therefore is taking it out on you. Good luck.
