[Loveli]

Hi April, last time I posted here was a while ago but your advice of taking it easy 😀 I took it. Everything has been going fine but yesterday something awful happened whit the guy I like, he’s gotten better actually less tongue tied 😀 . But now the problem is two days ago I was walking out of the classroom during lunch whit my best friend and he happened to be right in front of us. I don’t know why she was in such a hurry but she practically shoved him aside whit out saying “excuse me” and then when she had already shoved him “out of the way” she said “thanks”. I found that so rude! I could not believe she would do that! At the moment maybe I exaggerated a little and said a lot to her that it was wrong, that she should apologize and all that, but because of the way she is she took it all lightly and joked about it, I really love my besty and at that moment no matter how mad I was I could not help but laugh at her jokes yet after the laugh I would again insist that what she did was wrong.

In the end she refused to apologize to him, saying that she said “thanks” and that she would be careful to say “excuse me” next time. Lunch was over so I had to give up. But I feel guilt 😕 … both for not been able to have her apologize and for laughing! 😐 Oh… I feel so guilty for laughing. I want to tell him I’m sorry and that I should have not laughed, but I did not have the chance that day and yesterday was a national day here in my country so we don’t go to school and on top of that today he did not come because now he is sick (one of his friends that lives near him told me). So the next chance for me to say sorry is on monday… The problem is: Should I really say sorry? I know he saw me laughing, I saw him. But I’m not sure if it would be proper, my other friends (not the one that does not want to apologize) say I should, both my girl friends and guy friends say so. But if I really should, how should I go about it? I am kind of nervous and confused about what to say 😳 . Any advise?

Thanks for reading my problems again, really. Hope you can give me a hand again.

[Loveli]

Actually it helped a lot. Tough now I have a new factor I would like to take into count. Recently I found out that actually he knows I like him or at last is pretty much sure of it because everyone has been paying attention to how I act towards him. Now knowing this is making me extremely nervous 🙁 Now we are in exams so I didn’t have time to thank you sooner and then I found this out. Could his behavior be related to the fact of him suspecting or even knowing I like him? I am guessing yes. But now I have no clue what to do and ended up ignoring him the past few days. So I try to not even look at him and instead concentrate on school and my friends.

I am really thankful to you, your advice eased my mind a bit because I was going on and on about that on my mind, having your point of view really relaxed me a lot, so I could concentrate again on school for what’s left of this trimester (we have 3 trimesters at school, we are ending the second 1 so yeah lot’s of homework and that). I’m kinda sorry for not answering before 😳 but… yeah I’m writing now! 😀
Well umm… Thanks again really. Your advice it’s great hope you could help me a bit again 🙂 Actually finding out that he knows kinda got me a bit down to. Well Leaving that aside today he acted pretty weird… don’t really know how to explain it, just weird. If you want to ask me something feel free to do so, after all the expert is you I’m just a really confused highschool girl! 😆 and God of us there are a lot!! 😀

Well Thanks for taking the time to read my problems 🙂 And to answer them too! 🙂 Really, thank you <3

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