wow my prince turned into a toad

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  • #1414
    relationshipa1
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    dear April
    I am hoping you can help me. I am a 53 year old woman who moved in with my guy 1 1/2 years ago. At first it was nice but soon his true colors began coming out little by little. Today he treats more like a maid that is here to service him than a girlfriend. We only do things he likes and he will not budge when I ask him to do something that interests me. He is Jewish and I am not, which he knew before we even became involved, and he has forbidden me from wearing a cross necklace. I guess yesterday I finally realized just how selfish he is. I mentioned that I gave up my friends and family to move to his homestate and I get lonely and need to make a friend or so here and was asking him how to go about it here. He has lived here his whole life so I felt he may be of some help. His reply was ” well I can’t help you at all.” He does not trust people in his home so it makes it extra hard to have friends.
    He is very much into porn and because of a very bad past abusive relationship I want nothing to do with it. The other night I happened to glance over when he was online and he was looking at teen porn which totally upset me.
    Am I in the wrong ir is it time to consider moving on?

    #10534
    Anonymous
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    May I just say… wow. What a F*#%($)#$). I know you said you are older and all, but it don’t matter what the age. You need to get the french toast out of there. For one thing, you are a grown woman and shouldn’t be treated that way. You should be treated with love, respect, and dignity. Two, teen porn??? Hell no. If you see that you should turn him in because otherwise if he’s using your computer, you could get in trouble for it. Three, if there is every religious persecution in a relationship, then the relationship should end.

    You are a woman who deserves waaaaaaay better than some scummy jerk.

    #10514
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    You’re right. It’s time to leave.

    We all make mistakes and have problems as well as successes in love — regardless of age.

    I advise you read my book, Think & Date Like A Man, [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url] for women who want to find Mr. Right (not Mr. Right Now), and figure out how to get him. You’d get a lot out of this book!

    Good luck.

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