I have been seeing a really great guy for a month now and although we share a bed 5 nights a week and cuddle and have amazing foreplay, he always stops at the point where I think we’re going to have sex. Ive tried asking him gently why he stops, but he just says I will “understand eventually”. He obviously has no erectile problems, and is so loving and affectionate. He has told me he loves me and tells me lots of stuff that he says hes never told anyone else. The only reason I can see for this is that he is still a virgin. He has told me his last relationship was 10 years ago and only lasted 8 months. He really is my dream man, and although sex doesnt make or break a relationship, I really want to have sex with him. I’ve tried to reassure him when we are having foreplay by telling him “thats nice” etc….What do I do? I cant ask him outright as I dont want to make him feel emarrassed, and I want him to tell me the reason when hes ready. Please help!
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