Viewing 6 posts - 1 through 6 (of 6 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • #3641
    Boomersooner1
    Participant

    I met this girl that was a waitress at a bar about a year ago. We have only hung out a few times in that year when I saw her at a bar one time and went over to her house with a friend one time. We have kept in touch but all our conversations are pretty much just jokin around with eachother. Joking around about how we miss eachother and are in love, stuff like that. She did hit me up a few weeks ago drunk though, tryin to get me to meet up with her, sounding pretty promising, But unfortunately I was out of town. This isnt the type of girl I just wanna hook up with though, I would really like to date her.

    Today she text me sayin she was just talkin about me to a girl she works with that I just met a month or two ago at a club. Only hung out with that girl one night but have been friends ever since. But since we joke around she was like “We need to be better lovers” And I replied “Yeah I know, I havent seen you in forever and its very sad” She then said “It is very sad. Fix it” I replied ” Ok, I will try my best lover” Lol.

    So I have been tryin to think all day, I wonder if she really wants me to fix it and if so how should I go about it. I have thought of some ideas but dont wanna look like a jackass. I was thinkin bout seein if she wants to go to dinner but I kinda find it akward eating with someone you dont know too well yet, plus im a little shy. I also thought about maybe seein if she would want to go to a minor league baseball game downtown on a dollar beer night because those are something fun to go to. Or I thought maybe I should just wait till the weekend and see if shes goin out somewhere or wants to meet up. I dont know honestly, I dont wanna look stupid. Lookin for some advice, please???

    #19102
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Ask her out on a date. Both of your ideas were good ones — dinner or a baseball game. 😉 Just do it. She wants you to ask her out, and you will reap the rewards of overcoming your fear of looking silly. Remember that everyone looks silly at some point, and the chances are, you WON’T look silly — and even if you do, it will probably endear her to you. On the other hand, you may come off as charming and confident, and that’s a big win! 😀

    I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter.

    #18076
    Boomersooner1
    Participant

    Well I asked if she wanted to go to the baseball game and she asked when and mentioned how hot it has been. I told her its like 2 weeks away and I said I could get seats in the shade so it wouldnt be as hot. She said that would be fun. Then I said if its too hot right now we could do something else like go to dinner or out for drinks if she wants too. She then said, Are you askin me on a date? And I said Yeah you could say that. She then said well we will figure it out then. I said ok sounds good.

    So now what should I do? Is that pretty much a no?

    #17890
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Buy the tickets and tell her what time you’ll pick her up!

    #17224
    Boomersooner1
    Participant

    That worked perfectly lol. Thanks a lot.

    #17308
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Great! 😀

Viewing 6 posts - 1 through 6 (of 6 total)
  • You must be logged in to reply to this topic.

Comments are closed.