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8 Year relationship needs help!!!

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    tuotsekim
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    I’m 25 years old, and this girl I’ve been with is my first everything. I’ve been with this girl for 8 years technically. We broke up about 3 times, 2 of those times we were less then 2 weeks apart and still in contact, and the last time was about 3 months where i hooked up with a girl, it didn’t work out and ended up getting back with my first. I have never cheated on her nor gave her any reason to believe i have cheated on her. Shes says I’m a flirt but when i ask her friends if I’m a flirt, they say I’m just a really friendly and likable. theres always been the issue of her not trusting me and being to jealous. when our relationship was still young i thought i was just a phase and she would grow out of it, so i obliged and didn’t talk to my friends that were girls and basically made her the only girl in my life. but its been 8 years and still she gets jealous. i have friends that are girls that I’ve know for many years and I’ve never had any feelings or any type of intimacy with them. yet she still does not want me to talk to them. So the reason why I’m here is to know what to do. I’ve tried compromise where i invite her to meet my “girl” friends but she refuses. i always let her know when if they’re going be in the group of friends I’m hanging out with or if they’ve called or texted me. but she still get mad saying i don’t talk to my guy friends( she does) so you shouldn’t. what do i do?

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    Your girlfriend needs help that you can’t give her. All you can do is reiterate the fact that you’ve never cheated on her and that you’ve never given her any reason to believe you’ve cheated on her, so you’re not sure where these ideas of infidelity are coming from. Since you mention that she’s had this problem during the entire eight years you’ve been together, you probably know that this is baggage she brought to the relationship — not something you’ve done.

    If she can’t work this out on her own, the problem is probably going to get worse.

    In other words, you can just be clear with her about where your limits are and hope she doesn’t push you away. 😳

    I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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