The bottom line here is that it doesn’t sound like he wants another date. 🙁 If you’ve never really considered yourself a boring person, then chances are you aren’t! But if this isn’t the first time you’ve wondered this, then you may be. 😕 If you get this kind of reaction where people just kind of fade away without any seeming reason, then consider that you might be. But if it’s just this one date, it’s probably not a match, that’s all — or maybe it was an “off” date and didn’t have anything to do with your being boring or not being boring.
Instead of asking him if he thinks your boring, just flirt with him when you get the chance. 😎 (If you ask him if he thinks you’re boring, he’s going to say no, even if he thinks you are because it’s not a very polite thing for him to say and he doesn’t sound like the kind of guy who’s really interested in hurting your feelings or insulting you. So asking him isn’t going to get you an honest answer, or an answer you can do anything with.) Flirt and let him know you’re interested, and if he asks you out again, then he’s giving it a second chance and you can be your most interested and interesting self. 😉 And if he doesn’t, then chalk it up to a mismatch.
If you think you are boring, try to become more interesting and interested. Read more, do more, connect more and ask more questions. That’s a good way to start. 🙂
