[Anonymous]

I am not the easiest person to live with–I can be spoiled and want things my way. With that being said my boyfriend constantly is mean to me. He calls me names that people shouldn’t call other people. The real problem was when I told him in confidence that my uncle molested me when I was a child. Now any time he gets mad at me he says B***** thats why your uncle did that to you–that’s when I just can’t take it anymore and he cusses me out in front of the children and my mom and sometimes curses her out too -I love him and have never been in this kind of relationship before and just dont know what to do

[Ask April Masini]

Yes. You are in a relationship where a man curses at you in front of your minor children and your mother. Whether or not you deem it abusive, you KNOW this is wrong. Leave him. Yesterday. It’s really easy. Just change the locks and stop taking his calls or e-mails. That he blames you for your childhood molestation is pretty sick. 😯

Why would you subject your children to that kind of abuse? Because you love him? 🙄 How can you love someone who does that to you, your kids and your mother?? 😯 It’s really scary for kids to see a parent being abused and it’s abusive to them. You need to be a responsible parent and get rid of this guy immediately.

And when you begin to date again, make sure you choose someone who is HEALTHY AND KIND to both you, your children and everyone around you. 🙂

I hope that helps.

Come join me on Facebook — it’ll take your mind off of your soon to be ex-boyfriend. Here’s the link, and know that I’d love to see you there! [url][/url]. 😀

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