[tomtomtoms]

i found texts from my wife to a guy she had never mentioned before. She went to a buckcherry concert and was telling him about the dildos she bought there. She then sent him a pic at midnight. i asked her about it and she said he is one of her old co workers and she dont have to explain nothing to me. and that i am over reacting about this. is this normal to be talking about dildos ?

[AskApril Masini]

Nope. You’re not overreacting. 😕

But instead of focusing on what’s wrong with her and this guy — look at your relationship with her, and see where you can make things better. Indiscretions don’t happen in a vacuum. They happen because the primary relationship isn’t working for one or both people, and that’s where you can do the work to make your marriage stronger. Pointing fingers may feel good and justifiable, but that’s the short run. The inappropriate behavior you’re seeing is the symptom of a problem that’s in the marriage.

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