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So I met this guy online. He is 28 years old, and lives about 8 hours away not including the traffic. We talk almost everyday by texting or IM, sometimes on the phone. He told me that he lives with his parents because he broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years awhile ago and he is still trying to find his own place. He says he doesn’t have a lot of friends, only a few, and one of his “best friends” is an ex who he constantly hangs out with. They even spend nights at each others house. Supposedly, they don’ t do anything, and considering, the ex tried to contact me and saying all this stuff to make me jealous makes me think that they are only friends. But considering their history, it still makes me think about stuff. Another thing that bugs me is that I have asked him about us being exclusive, and he has yet to give me an answer. He keeps saying he is still thinking about it because of the distance and what people are saying about us if we do become exclusive. I’ve known him for about a year and a half. I can’t tell if he truly has feelings for me like he says or if he just playing me even though I told him I’m not like a friend for benefit kind of thing. What should I do?

[Ask April Masini]

What should you do? Run! In the opposite direction.

Pros: I can’t think of any.

Cons:

1. He lives eight hours away. How is he going take you out on a date?

2. He is 28 and lives with his parents.

3. He has no friends.

4. His ex-girlfriend and he still have sleepovers. 🙄

5. He doesn’t know if he wants to be exclusive with you. And from what I can tell of your post, he’s never asked you out on a date in the one and a half years you’ve known him. 😕

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Let me know how it goes, and I hope this helped. I know it’s not what you wanted to hear, but I’d hate to see you waste any more time on this guy who is so clearly not for you.

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