[Freddy]

Last night I called my new girlfriend of one month to tell her a couple of things that has been weighing on my mind. I’m not good at politics or relationship etiquette and often misinterpret, don’t see nor understand some subtle gestures she makes. Sometimes I make mistakes because of this and I don’t want to. I care about her feelings and asked her if she could be more blunt about things sometimes so I understand.

I also confessed [a week after she asked me a direct question on our 5th date] with the reason I was really fidgeting that evening. She said she was happy that I started opening up to her and I do feel better getting that off my chest because it was starting to make me think to much and that was making me unproductive.

Do women see this as unattractive, weakness or being ignorant? Should I be worried?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Please do not post the same question under different names. I answered this question yesterday!! Were you hoping to get a different answer if you used a different name? 😆

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[Freddy]

No; I didn’t know at the time I submitted the question that the posts were viewed by moderators and did not show up right away. I thought there was a problem and re-posted. Sorry.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

No worries — but keep the same name on your posts. It prevents confusion. I get to every post within 24 hours on average, but yes, the posts do go through filters first.

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