[tom87]

Dear April

I’ve been dating this girl for almost three months and there for a while we couldn’t get enough of seeing each other but for the last couple of weeks she seems to be distancing herself from me she barely seems like she wants to talk and she is the best thing that ever happened to me and I dont want to lose her. What do you think I should do?

[Badfinger]

Did you tell her that?

3 months is a little soon to declare her the ONE for you.

You didn’t have an exclusive relationship apparently and she’s got another boyfriend now, I gather from her actions.

You are out of luck here it appears, but I’d ask her directly IN PERSON, you need chance to read body language.

[Anonymous]

Yeah we did do something tonight but all she kept talking about was this new guy she worked with and she barely wanted to touch me at all I mean I don’t bring up any females I work with at all but she seems to always talk about him

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Sorry, badfinger, but I have to disagree. Three months is the mark when people tend to decide whether or not they want to invest more time into a relationship. It sounds like she’s definitely drifting.

Make sure you’re showing her your best self. I’ve written a book for men who want to win in dating. It’s called Date Out of Your League and you can purchase it for only $14.95 here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. It downloads automatically and I’m recommending it for you because I think it will help you. If there is a chance for you to reign her in, this book will give you all the tips, tricks and advice on getting your girl.

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[Badfinger]

3 months into it, I am not sure showing your best self is what I would call it, I would just BE YOURSELF, if that’s not good enough, be gone with them, it wasn’t meant to be.

There is the one and there is wanting to continue, not exclusive in my mind.

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Relationships take work and sometimes being one’s best self is an effort — but well worth the effort. The payoff for trying to do the right thing in as many situations as possible is infinitely better than what anyone gets for being lazy.

[Vic128]

There could be many possible reasons for that. Don’t you remember doing something wrong when you were together, or even just while talking, that might have disappointed her?

It could also be that she lost interest in you because she met someone else. Or it could simply be that she’s busy.

Have you tried asking her why she seems so cold lately, so you can understand what’s wrong? That way, you can figure out how to fix it.

[Member]

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