[jada1]

Dear April Masini,

I have been dating this cool successful guy since March. We have known each other for two years but he had never asked me out before because I was in a relationship. Once he knew I was single he swung for the chance. The first date was great and ended with a tap kiss. Then there was a two month break in between because I was busy with school. I graduated the end of May and became available once again and so we reconnected. We had been communicating all through out June and then finally went on our second date in July which also went well and he went in for a kiss, it got a little hot n heavy. The third date was finally this month and it was great as well and we ended up having sex….there was a lot of sexual chemistry between the two of us and so I relented. I read in your book that you should wait at least three weeks, that is, three dates to have sex. In this case the time frame is much longer and we have been talking since the end of May so does this qualify as a boo boo? will he lose interest in me? am I not a prize to him anymore? I am going nuts please help me! Also, he has a tendency in general to text way too much and not call frequently, which bothers me a little.

Thank you,
Jada1

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You didn’t do anything wrong. Your dates were spread out because of circumstances — not disinterest. Since you feel he texts too much, don’t respond to his texts each time, and he’ll get the message! You can do this two ways. First, don’t respond quickly to his texts. Wait at least half a day if not more — and then only respond to every other one. But when you do respond, do so cheerfully. If he sees you’re responding favorably when you do respond, he won’t be able to get the wrong message. He’ll figure out that if he wants your attention, he needs to knock on the door that will open!

I hope this helps!

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[jada1]

Thank you so much! This was very helpful….feel like with this new age of technology that more men are reverting to texting rather than having actual conversations. Also feel much more relieved about being intimate with him. I will definitely apply the texting techniques with him.

Jada1

[jada1]

Thanks so much! I definitely feel relieved about having had sex with him. Will apply the texting technique. Feel like nowadays with technology and all that more men are reverting to texting rather than having actual conversations.

Jada1

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re welcome! 😀

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