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Best friends or more?

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    anissawolf
    Member #287,944

    So, I’ve been in love with my best friend for 12 years. We both just got out of 6 year relationships. Anytime he’s single I’m the first person he calls and we are pretty much inseparable. He has been staying with me, and I’m wondering if he might finally be interested in more. He’s been talking about getting jobs together and sharing an apartment. He takes me out to eat and wants to cook for me. We spend every waking minute together. We are intimate and just the other night we fell asleep holding each other. Unfortunately, my ex still lives with me…
    He’s pushing me to make my ex leave. He even offered to take care of it for me. He’s going to sell his car so that we can use the money to fix mine and pay some bills… I don’t know. I want to see this heading somewhere but I don’t want to lie to myself either. Opinions? Advice?

    #28329
    AskApril Masini
    Keymaster

    I’m not sure how old you are, or what kind of advice you’re looking for. Maybe if you ask me a specific question I can be of more help. 🙂 In the meantime, I can give you some general advice:

    Living with you ex-boyfriend means you’re not really single. If you’re not single, you can’t get into a healthy relationship with anyone, so my advice is that you take care of old business before starting new business. 🙂

    There’s probably a reason you don’t want to give up your ex-boyfriend, and you should probably face that sooner than later. Decide if you want to be single or not, and then act on that decision. It’s going to make subsequent decisions a lot easier. 😀

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    #29045
    natellaine
    Member #289,926

    you have to choose between the two. Your EX or the one you LOVE. If i we’re you, i’ll choose the one i LOVE. But in my status now, i choose to stay with my BOYFRIEND, even if i still love my FIRST LOVE. LOL kidding aside, choose the one you really love the most. He shows you that he really cares for you. Goodluck! Add me as a friend thank you!! 🙂

    #31830
    AskApril Masini
    Keymaster

    Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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