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2 Nights ago I found out that my boyfriend of 14 months had been texting a younger girl who he works with.
He’s almost 20 and she has just turned 16.
He had to drop her home from work that day and since then he text her 40 times, even after picking me up from work and telling me ‘I love you’ he still text her after he dropped me off at the train station.
This went on from 11am untill 8pm.
It was only by chance that I checked our phone bill (joined account) and sussed out his to find he had been texting someone all day. Out of interest I rand the number and found out it was a young girl he worked with who knows me and we were frieds.

After confronting him he took it out on me, calling me all sorts of names and then calling me ‘low’ for looking at the bill but if I didn’t do this, wouldn’t this text messaging have progressed?

He mentioned it was inappropriate texting which is was no doubt anyway.

It’s been 2 days. I sent a message via facebook to the girl involved just saying to stop it and does she understand where im coming from. Because I didn’t get a reply I called her 30 minutes ago and discussed it, she said it will stop etc.

Next thing my bf calls me, getting all angry because I called her. I never said anything wrong and he got all angry at me saying that how can we move on etc when I wont forget about it?

I also got word that he was flirting with her any carrying on at work… 😕

How should I react to this? He walks all over me which is not like me because I used to be a very strong person! Should I stand up for myself? I’m not sure how to go about this I need help..

It also bothers me that she is 16? He is 20?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Your boyfriend is getting himself into some very hot water with a minor child. She may look like a young woman, but at age 16, he’s possibly setting himself up for a sexual harassment situation at work, or worse, if he dates her. That said, YOU should not be calling a 16 year old girl, either. 😮 If anything, you should talk to her parents, not her!

My advice is that you break up with him and find a man who wants you! He isn’t acting like he does, and he’s also skirting some illegal behavior. Don’t blame the girl. She’s very young. Blame your boyfriend who is old enough to know better. 😕

I hope that helps, even though it’s probably not what you want to hear.

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