My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore.
Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him because he was claiming he knew he loved me now and wanted to get married, blah, blah, blah.
Well now, we are back to living at separate residences, he doesnt tell me he loves me anymore, and when I asked him how he feels about me he says “havent decided yet” really? After two years you just “havent decided?”
I got the flu this week and have been terribly sick. While he did drop off some soup and powerade when I wasnt actually here earlier in the week, he doesnt want to try and take care of me because he is too afraid he will get sick. I had a temperature of 101.4 the other night and started comtemplating calling an ambulance… I called him for help and he said he could come over if I felt like I REALLY needed him but he REALLY didnt want to be sick.
Wouldn’t you say this is basically a bad sign? He claims that no one wants to be sick. I finally just called my mother (yes, 23 years old with a boyfriend and I had to call my mother) to come help. He was surprised she wasnt worried about getting sick too. He thinks ppl should just be able to handle these things themselves.
Am I going crazy?
