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April,
My boyfriend and I have not talked for 2 weeks now, except for last Sunday. He told me that he was moving out of the house for a week because his parents got into a fight. Yesterday, my best friend told me that he texted her last week saying that he went to Galveston, but his brother said to my other friend that they weren’t out of town. My guy friends have also been telling me that he’s been playing Modern Warfare all the time, but my best friend said that yesterday he told her that his mom was making him do all these things to keep him from playing games and getting on the computer. I’m confused now. None of this adds up. Today is our 5 month anniversary and I still haven’t been able to talk to him. I really trust him because we’ve been through a lot together and he’s just the kind of person that would never cheat on you or anything like that, but all of this is making me confused. What does this mean and what am I supposed to do now?

[Ask April Masini]

I’m not sure how hold you are (it always helps when you tell me your ages!), but it sounds like regardless of the reason, he’s absent from your relationship. 😥 He doesn’t have to cheat on you to lose interest, in fact lots of relationships fade because there is incompatibility. It sounds like your boyfriend is just more interested in other facets of his life than he is with you. It doesn’t mean you’ve done anything wrong, but if he doesn’t contact you for over two weeks, I’d say things are not going well for the relationship.

I know you’re confused because someone you thought you were so close to now has other priorities, but the non-confusing part is that he’s made it clear he’s not contacting you. You deserve more than this. Go get it! 🙂

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