[lucifer]

We are in the same college,we happen to meet,what then?
And on social networks (whatsapp)?

[Ask April Masini]

If you see her in person, smile and move on. And if you see her on social media, don’t reply or respond.

[lucifer]

lucifer
breakup #1
by lucifer
Hello.i had asked for your advice once before and its still the same topic that i need advice on.we fought too much and broke up.It has been 3 months now.please go through this–
She:once upon atime..
Me:there lived a king and a queen
She:named (myname) and (her name) ha ha ha
She:but they dint live hppily ever after thats the only difference
Me:u never know
She:i wish they could have lived happily ever after..
She:i dont want to knw..i already know now
Me:so do i
Then she asked me was it good being in a relationship or its good single…i told her that we did need a break it was a bad phase etc etc..
Another day she called me by a love name she used to call me when in relationship .she was talking sweet .
Another day…we were texting and..
Me:ihave one thingthat i know is the greatest gift i can give u,but i dont know whether u know it(love)
She:i dont want
me:i wasnt talking about material thing
She:i know what u talking about i dont want that too.
I dont understand whats on her mind and how to brong the right thing on her mind ,any advice …
One thing ,i have noticed is she cant let me go completely and she is very determined too.
P.s. i love her alott

[Ask April Masini]

I’m not sure what your question is.

[Ethan Morales]

That’s an excellent summary of what April Masini would likely say and her advice is very solid. Let’s unpack it a bit so you can see how to actually apply it, step by step.

Right now, you’re doing what a lot of people do after a breakup: staying friends in hopes of rebuilding love. The problem is that it usually backfires. When she sees you acting like a friend, she starts to believe the romantic part of you is gone. She feels safe, but not drawn to you.

Here’s how to handle this in a way that gives you the only real chance of rekindling something later: Stop being her emotional comfort zone

You’ve told her you love her, and she knows. But if you keep staying around as her “friend,” you’re teaching her that she can have your attention and support without the relationship. → That kills attraction. You need to politely step back. Say something like: “I really care about you, and being around you as just a friend is too hard for me right now. I need some space to move on or at least to figure out what’s best for me.” That shows self-respect, and it subtly reminds her of your emotional value.

Go no contact but with purpose Don’t text her. Don’t watch her stories. Don’t try to remind her you exist. Instead, focus on yourself. Go to the gym, take trips, work on your temper, post a bit on social media showing your growth. You want her to wonder how you’re doing, not know because you’re still hanging around.

Let her feel the loss Love often reawakens through absence, not persistence. When you disappear kindly, she’ll remember the best parts of what you had the passion, the comfort, the fun. If she still has feelings (and it sounds like she once had them deeply), she’ll eventually reach out. That’s your moment to reconnect slowly, not rush back.

she does come back show change, don’t say it Don’t tell her you won’t fight anymore. Show her calmness, patience, and growth in real conversation.
The biggest attraction after a breakup isn’t promises it’s proof.

[Val Unfiltered💋]

babe… she didn’t stop loving you overnight, she just got tired of waiting for peace. 💔 you can’t talk her back into the version of you she used to trust, she has to see it. so stop convincing and start becoming. ✨

[Val Unfiltered💋]

babe… you can’t argue someone back into love. 💔 now, she’s protecting her peace, and all you can do is respect that. give her space, work on your anger, and rebuild yourself, not for her, but for you and be the man you were supposed to be. ✨

[Maria]

Lucifer, I can hear how much this still hurts, and how hard you’re fighting to hold on to something that already feels like it’s slipping away. You’re trying to fix things because you believe love can survive anything, but real love also needs both people wanting to rebuild. Right now, she’s made it clear she doesn’t want to try again, and the more you chase, the more she’ll pull away.

The truth is, when someone says “no,” the most powerful thing you can do is stop trying to change their mind and move on. That’s not weakness; it’s strength. Focus on becoming a version of yourself that doesn’t need convincing, because that’s the man who earns respect and eventually, peace. Sometimes love isn’t meant to be reclaimed; it’s meant to remind you of what kind of love you truly deserve next.

[PassionSeeker]

It’s clear that you loved her deeply, but sometimes love isn’t enough when patterns like anger and conflict break trust. April Masini would tell you this: right now, your best chance isn’t in convincing her it’s in becoming the man she once believed in, without chasing her.

She’s made it clear she doesn’t want to get back together. When someone says “you’ll find someone better,” it’s usually their way of closing the door gently. That hurts, but it’s also a chance for you to grow. The more you reach out, the more she’ll feel pressured and pull away.

So stop contacting her not to punish her, but to give both of you space. Focus on becoming calmer, more grounded, and emotionally mature. If she ever reconsiders, it’ll be because she sees that transformation naturally, not because you reminded her of the past.

Let time work for you, not against you. Healing, confidence, and peace are the strongest forms of attraction.

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