[Randall]

I have a question for your knowledgeable dating crew over there. I’ve dated many women but it seems no one woman is enough. I’m not trying to act studly, I’m just saying that dating at least two women at once seems to be my happy place. I’ve yet to meet a woman who loves to be adventurous, but also loves museums and musicals, who loves to roleplay, but isn’t insane or in heavy debt. I just got out of a relationship with a girl who’s nine years older then I am. she’s perfect except she can’t have kids and has loads of debt. That puts a damper on my family and travel plans. My question is: do you think it’s possible to have a life long polygamous relationship with two women who you view as your partners and loves and have them not hate each other and you for it? Please tell me how can I make this work!?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Sorry, but I don’t think it can work. Keep dating lots of women until you decide you’re ready to settle down with one woman. If you’re not ready, don’t try to force yourself to be. There’s nothing wrong with being that swinging single! 😆 But don’t pretend you’re going to have a happy life as the husband to a bunch of women who get to share you. 😕

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