First of all, asking a guy out will almost always backfire, as you now see. Let the man be who he wants to be — the hunter! And you be the vixen who gives chase! 😎 It will work much better for you if you can abide by this very simple and crucial dating rule. Men want to be the ones who do the chasing, and if you start asking him to hang out or date you, you take that opportunity away from him. Instead of being the prize they want to chase and win over, you end up being the booby prize who threw yourself at him. 😥
You can learn a lot about this in my book, Think & Date Like A Man, that I wrote specifically for women like yourself who want to be more successful in dating. You can get the book at this link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], and I hope you do. It’s a short read, a great price and an immediate download! 😀
If you can change your behavior as the book advises, you’ll have a much better chance at his asking you out. Right now he likes you — but not enough to really pursue you with any meaning. If you become the woman who gives chase, then you may find he WILL pursue you and want to date you.
As for your boyfriend, you should probably make a decision about whether you want to break up with him or not and then stick to it. If he leaves for the air force because you break up with him, he’ll have made a good commitment to serve the country. If he attempts suicide — and if you think he’s serious about this — then you have a responsibility to call a suicide hotline and ask for professional help for him.
I hope that gets you somewhere! And I hope you’ll join me on Facebook — I have a new group page, AskApril.com on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. See you there! 🙂
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