[Anonymous]

ok im going to try and keep this brief me and my girlfriend have been together for eight months when we first started dating she had a boyfriend but he wasnt there when i was so she went with me as a boyfriend now i think she may be cheating on me with another guyi have confronted her about it and she says i would never cheat on you but i dnt know wether or not to believe her shes going off to college next year and im concerned lately we havent been talking like what i mean is we have nothing to talk about its the same thing over and over i love uand thats boring to me and our sex life is next to nothing i am the one who took her virginity but since then its like nothing i cant have sex with her because she says and i quote “it hurts me” what am i to do should i b concerned and is our relationship coming to an end is there anything i can do to save this relationship plz help me

[Ask April Masini]

It sounds like your relationship is coming to an end. 😳 I know that’s not what you want, but sometimes you have to accept reality even when it hurts. Staying in a dead and festering relationship is much worse than having your heart broken and moving on.

If she won’t have sex with you because it hurts her, then she needs to see a doctor. She may have an infection, a sexually transmitted disease or some internal injury that needs attention. If she won’t see a doctor, that’s a bigger problem — you’re with someone who doesn’t take care of themselves or their relationships! 🙁

If there’s no interest, no sex, you think she’s cheating and she’s leaving in a year, I think it’s time for you to move on.

I’m sorry that’s not what you want to hear, but I think it’s what you need to hear.

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