[sheerstonegirl]

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six months and we never ever argue while we were dating. However, knowing that I might have to leave for my internship which made us have alot of discussion about this. At first he was willing to try long distance relationship. Now he has changed his mind and said that he can’t emotionally carry on. He said can’t stand seeing us arguing about the long distance and fought about it. He said he can’t stand seeing the girl he love is going to change and he wants to end it with good memories we had. I managed to somehow convinced him yesterday and he said he will try to carry on for me and I ask him if he is going to be normal.He said he should be. But the way he texted is so short and not the same when I text him normally. I don’t know what to do about him, please help me!!!

[Kimaria]

I feel that you can only express your feelings to him. Let him know that you want him, love him and don’t want to lose him. But, after saying that, he must make a decision. He can’t treat you badly. You didn’t do anything wrong. He loves you and is afraid of
losing you. But, that doesn’t mean he can hurt you like this. You have to talk to him again and let him know that it’s not you’re desicion to end it, but that he has to be in it as much as you are. If he isn’t strong enough to have the long distance relationship, then end the realationship for now. He may realize he’d rather have you in his life long distance than not at all.

[AskApril Masini]

You can’t always have what you want. 😳 I understand why you want to continue the relationship over the course of distance created by your choice to take an out of town internship. And I understand why he doesn’t want to have the long distance, so he feels a break up is in order. You can try and convince him and try and make it work, but you can only try. If this is something he doesn’t want, and he knows his mind, it’s his decision to continue or not continue. The shortened texting is a sign that in spite of your best efforts, he’s moving towards a break up. 😥

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