Im 27 years old. I have mixed emotions right now about this one guy. We been friends w benefits for about a year..at first we did everything sexually but now lately hes stopped w the initamiate kisses and more about oral pleasures. I thought maybe he wasnt into meanymore .i have feelings for this guy but i have yet to tell him. I dont know if i should anymore. We locked eye contact at work before, hes always winking and coming into my personal space and tells me how much he wants me. A couple of days ago he asked me about my ex who recently started working with us. When we talked about it the look he gave me was the look of he wanted to tell me something but was afraid too. This morning we spent some time talking and i felt like we bonded more. Should i tell even tell him or not?
I don’t think you should tell him. Instead, decide if you want to continue your friends with benefits relationship or not. If you do, then just keep going as you have been. If you don’t, and you want more, then you need to start acting like a girlfriend instead of a friend who allows benefits. 😉 Work with your behavior — not your words.
