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Confused, Hurt And Going Crazy!

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    bambi83
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    I’ve been dealing with this guy for 4yrs He keeps claiming to love me He’s not trying to lose me He’s not going anywhere and all this other crap (by his own choice) We almost had a child He keeps bothering me when i try to move on and walk away When im fed up with his mess but he doesn’t consider or acknowledge me as somebody in his life or at least that’s the way it seems. How could that be??…

    I have been through alot and been put through alot with this guy! I’ve asked and said to him repeatedly If you’re not trying to be bothered or If you’re into another woman and U have better options and other plans Why don’t u Just Tell Me?… He says Nothing Or responds he loves me and trys to make it seem its not like that at all! One minute he loves me He wants to blow my phone up and play me close but the next Act like we’re just buddies and Play cordial Like im nothing more than just a friend!
    I ask myself all the time What does he want from me? Why does he keep bothering me? Is this my fault?… I really love this man But I hate him for everything! I wanted it to work so bad but i cry and pray that i forget him and move on!
    I don’t know what to do or how to feel!
    Confused Hurt And Going Crazy!!

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    If he flip flops about the way he treats you and this has been going on for four years — and it’s making you crazy, then it’s time to really decide what it is YOU’RE doing in this relationship. 😕 If he doesn’t acknowledge you as someone important to him, after four years, my advice is really to move on and find someone who is more compatible with you and who has the same relationship goals that you do. If you stay, of course you’re going to be hurt and crazed because you’re ignoring who he is, what you want, and the fact that you’re not going to get it from him. You’re not a victim, so don’t behave like one. Find a man to date who doesn’t treat you like this. 😉

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