[sumit25987]

I have been in a long distance relationship for past 3years. From last year on things started to fall apart. We started fighting on petty issues.. fights become frequent then came a time when we would fight on any randon topic and broke up. Right now she doesnt even want to discuss the relationship. Her b’day is coming up and I want to be there with her but she doesnt want me to come. Will it be a good idea to go anyway or give her some time? Our anniversary is also coming. What should i do? I want this relationship to continue..

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are you both, and are you interested in marriage or just dating for fun? And if it’s marriage, what’s kept you from marrying her after a year or two?

[sumit25987]

well.. we were both studying initially..
after studies i had no work.. when i just started to work, i had an accident and spent last year unable to do any sort of work.
now when i am trying to pull my life back together she says that i always ran away from any sort of responsibilities and didn’t get any work. now she has gone completely cold saying that she waited for enough time and cant marry a loser like me.

[sumit25987]

age: i’m 26 and she is 24

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I know you want her back, but she doesn’t want you back, and from what you’ve written, she’s made it crystal clear. My advice is to not waste your time and energy trying to win back someone who is so very clear that she isn’t interested, especially after you’ve already had a three year relationship together that didn’t work out.

I know that breaking up is hard, but in this case, it’s really better for you to let go and move on. You’ll be a lot happier with someone who wants you than you will be trying to convince someone who doesn’t, that you’re really right for her.

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[sumit25987]

well.. thanks..
yeah i already reached this decision.. 🙂
it doesnt make any sense anymore..
thanks a ton for ur advice though.. 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome. 🙂

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