[Anonymous]

So the other day, I saw this very attractive girl and wanted to get her number. Throughout the night I talked a little here and there with to her just the usual chitchat and then left her be for a little bit. Then I decided to make my move. I walked up to her and it was kind of loud in the room so I leaned in and put my hand on the small of her back. I asked if I could have her number cause I would like to give her a call sometime. All she said was sorry and went back to what she was doing. Well I thought oh well lost cause. Well about 5 mins later after not saying anything she walks up to where I was, leaning on a table, to grab something. Low and behold we lock eyes and with a tilt of her head she puts her hand on my arm and apologies with a flirty smile. I say nothing just nod my head and she grabs what she needed. I start to turn away when again she grabs my arm and says sorry and then turns and leaves.

What should I draw from this situation. I thought if a girl touches your arm that is a good thing and she is attracted to you, but when I asked for her phone number she said no. I have not seen her since that night but kinda hope I do. I don’t know what to think. Any advice?

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

You’re right: when a woman touches you, she’s flirting with you. She wasn’t ready to give out her phone number, but she was game for talking to you a little more, after which point she might have felt comfortable enough to give you her number.

There’s a chapter in Date Out of Your League that talks all about body language and what it really means. I think you’d get a lot out of it. You can buy the book here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

I hope that helps. 😀

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