[mrConfused]

So that was on a Saturday morning. I sent her text message on Monday morning saying I hope she had a nice weekend and hoped she has a good day. She replied that she did have a nice weekend and added that I was part of it. So, everything seems good right? Not so sure. She doesn’t call me, I seem to be the one initiating all the contact, she doesn’t answer my calls. Yet she says she has enjoyed my company when we are out. So this past Thursday, I asked her out again for next weekend. She declined due to her sister coming into town that weekend. OK ni problem. I texted her Saturday just to say hi. She replied with “thank you for thinking of me” ….mentioned she was going somewhere and would call me tomorrow. Well she did text me saying happy fathers day but she never called. I’ve seen her 3 times in 6weeks and I just kinda feel there may be a shift in interest but I’m confused as to why because all of our conversations have been good and I’ve always received positive feedback after I see her. I know she’s a busy mom…my 3 children lube with me. I know what busy is. Based off the women I’ve met since my marriage ended….I.ordinarily wouldn’t care. But this woman has her stuff together, carries herself well, is intelligent and well spoken, very attractive, and…..well…I’m simply interested in knowing her better. I’m not trying to score a night in the sack with her.and I know I didn’t give that impression. I’m 42, she’s 38. I guess I’m just thinking that it shouldn’t always be me trying to.make contact. I don’t want to just stop contacting her because I really do want to talk to her but at the same time i dont want to be anyone’s nuisance either. Do I ask her what she thinks of me or if she has an interest in getting know me more? I do t want to seem unconfident but I really do want to talk to her. When we were in eachothers company, all seemed to go well and it was confirmed by her saying so the next day. Yet there is little to no contact between outings. Your thoughts on this one would be great.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Sorry to do this to you, but can you please re-post this second part of your question with the first part of your question? It’s a lot easier for readers to see your entire post in one place instead of half a post in one place and half in another! Just hit the reply button on the first part of your question, and add the next part. 😀

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