[Anonymous]

I am able to meet women from the Internet fairly well I have several attractive photos up and an interesting profile. So I get women who email me and want to get to know me. I get there phone number and within a few days suggest going on a date which they usually accept. My problem is in person every attractive girl i get a date with in person I feel once they see me there no longer interested. I consider myself attractive but it seems like on the dates they show disinterest which makes it more difficult for me to get to know them and close to them. If they don’t allow me to connect with them on the date and make some moves i almost always move on. If they decide to contact me days later then I will act like I was just busy or something but this isn’t the case. It seems like im able to see if a girl likes me within the first 5 or ten min of the date by reading body language or what they say and do etc. My question is im tired of goin on dates with attractive women and none of them connecting with me which leads to more dates. My ex gf of 5 years was very attractive so im confused as why i can’t get another cute girl im attracted to to what to go on more than one date with me. The last girl I went on a date with said she didn’t want to kiss me that she just got out of a longterm relationship and i had to go out of my way to cuddle with her or hold her hand. It’s funny because she said all my pictures were cute she would text or call me daily b4 we met and her dating profile said she’s looking to get into a relationship. Are women that shallow that if they don’t find you cute enough you can just get rejected over and over again. These girls are not 9s or 10s there just average attractive women. What can i do besides play mind games with these girls to give me a shot so they wanna see me again.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

First of all, buy my book, Date Out of Your League, so you can win with women. The book is an EXCELLENT resource for men who need a little boost in the dating arena, and I think it’s going to help you a lot. Here’s the link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

Second of all, how many women have you dated until you feel like dating isn’t working for you? The reason I ask is that it’s important you understand that dating is a numbers game. If you’re looking for that home run then you have to be willing to get up to bat over and over again. In baseball, the players with the most home runs also have the most strike outs. They just don’t quit — and neither should you.

Third, it’s important to learn from what you’re doing so you can evolve in the dating process. Giving a woman five or ten minutes on a first date may not be a good rule for you. You may need to reassess your game, and Date Out of Your League will help you do that, so buy it and read it!

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go — and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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