[officerferry]

One of my client gave me his phone number after very cute conversation. I wasn’t sure how I need to react but after a week and half I called him. He was very nice and charming. we talked for 10 minutes and he needed to go but he called me back after one hour and our conversation continued. I was kind of disturbed that he didn’t aske me out but I decided to give gim some space. He texted three days later and we kind of texted back and forth. He asked me why I called him and he is open for anything, at least a friendship. the next day, he texted me again and asking me what I am doing that night. He still didn’t ask me out officially or calling me back. He was very caring and detailed on his texts. he told me about himself and how he is or even if I like that kind of guy. He initiated Text mesage conversation three times already and nodate yet. I gave up until yesterday which He came to my office for business transaction. I was busy in the other office, He asked my coworker where I was and send his regards. I came back before he eaves and kind of ignored him by talking to my manager, He waited for me, came to talk to me and told me he will talk to me later. He texted me again aftre rfive minue to wish me a good day at work. This is irritating, Do I reply to his text messages, Do I put my feet down and tell him I am not looking for friendship and I want relationship? what should I do, to encourage him to ask me out?

[kai]

Hey OfficerFerry, like i mentioned to several other posters — April has told everyone that the welcome area [b]is not for questions[/b] and [u]should not[/u] be used to get advice. 😮 it says “DO NOT post your questions” here, when you go to sign up. 😳

i suggest you [u]delete the questions you posted in the welcome forum [/u]and [b]repost them in the Q & A Relationship Advice Forum[/b] .

you won’t get a response to your question here. 😀

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Let me know how things are going for you? 😉

[Sally]

Texting is safe. Calling you and asking you out isn’t. Right now he’s enjoying the connection, the attention, and the flirtiness without taking a risk. That doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy, but it does mean he’s comfortable where things are.

You don’t need to play games or ignore him. And you don’t need to pressure him either. You can be clear. Something simple, like saying you enjoy talking to him but you’re not really looking for a texting friendship. That opens the door without pushing him through it.
If he wants more, he’ll step up. If he doesn’t, you’ll finally know. And honestly, clarity feels way better than guessing.

[Member]

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