[fearlesslove101]

My love life has always been the kind of a soapy, but i just want to know if you can never stop loving someone ?
I dated my first love for 2 years, he left on the 2 year mark for a friend of mine, which she turned out to be a complete bitch ( excuse my french) she made him do things that he wouldnt normally do, and he didnt treat me the best. Until this year they broke up and he came to me and apologised for everything he did and was hoping we could be friends. Which reluctantly i said yes. Though the moment he come into my life i realized i never got over him, and i tried dating other men, but none of them were right, i found myself comparing them to what i had with him,,, and now im stuck in a rut, all i do is think about him, and miss him, even though he did hurt me. I DONT KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO!

[AskApril Masini]

It must have been traumatic for you to have your boyfriend of two years leave you for a friend. 😕 Unfortunately, he realized his mistake, but the damage was done, and being friends with him is just going to prolong your pain. My advice is to let go of the friendship. It’s never a good idea to be friends with a guy — and especially when that guy is someone you’re in love with. 😳 You can’t feel single as long as he’s in your life, so even though you have feelings for him, his presence isn’t good for you.

Focus on you and what’s good for you — and what you want in your life. If you want a long-term, committed relationship with a guy, then that’s what you should focus on. As long as he’s in your life, you’ll be distracted, and he’ll be an obstacle to your happiness.

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