[discovery2]

met this girl the other day, attracted to her. I shouted her into the club and she said “make sure you add me on fb”, invited me to a house party shes having in a couple weeks time the following day.
Do u think shes interested?
what kind of convo would be good to start to talk to her on fb?

thanks

[ankit]

Maybe or maybe not! Get on a high spree but not that much high . She might be think like you would be her man kinda thing . Wait and go slow . Meet her on fb , talk to start normally like what you do, where you live etc . and give her time to decide and take your time too .It would be good for both of you .

[kai]

I notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors.

[b]This is not in the forum where April answers readers questions. [/b]

If you want to get a response from April, please repost your question in the proper forum, the Q & A Advice Forum:
https://www.askapril.com/forums/viewforum.php?f=1

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Let me know how things are going for you? 😉

[Sally]

She didn’t have to tell you to add her. She didn’t have to invite you to her house party either. People don’t do that with someone they feel nothing toward. At the very least, she’s open and curious about you. That’s a good start.

Don’t overthink the first message. Keep it light and normal. Something like saying hey, nice meeting you the other night, glad you invited me to the party. That’s it. You’re just reopening the door, not giving a speech.

Avoid compliments right away and don’t jump into flirting hard. Let it feel easy, like you’re continuing a conversation, not auditioning.
If she replies and keeps it going, you’re good. If she doesn’t, you didn’t do anything wrong — you just tested the water.
Confidence here is calm, not pushy.

[Member]

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