[9935natasha]

Hi April,
I broke up with my ex in JAN 2013. we have been good friends ever since… it was a smooth break up. we were better as friends and not as much compatible as a couple .I was willing to try to make it work , but he suggested that we are better as friends so we called it off. I was a little hurt, but not as much as id expected… I was able to reconcile to myself that its better to call off something earlier than putting my all into it and eventually having another heartbreak. I knew from the start that I was totally the opposite of his “type” of girl…( tall, blonde, busty is what he likes)

Anyway we have been in touch and hanging out together quite a bit…. and id even allow him to crash in my spare bedroom literally 1 night every week on nights when he’d be too drunk to go all the way home after a party etc, he even invited me to his bday party…. and we all had a great night.

But just yesterday, he asked me if he could stay over in my spare room after he’d been drinking with friends. As usual I agreed, he came home around 4am , only this time….with another girl!( I did not see him face to face … but I could hear them( 😯 ) through my wall) I was a little bit upset by this and I let him know the next day by an SMS text that my house is not a hotel! and that he should at least let me know he’d be getting a guest to my place!

we are really good friends, and I really do hope it stays that way, I don’t mind him getting physical with other girls, but not in my house….I do not think im ready for that….it still does hurt a bit…. WHY AM I FEELING THIS WAY??. Was my confronting him about how I felt about it ok?? don’t I deserve at least that much respect in this friendship….
could u tell me how to deal with this? and not sound to clingy to him….and not let this great friendship end?

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