[Anonymous]

So in the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend, we had made facebook accounts..and It started to tear up apart because of who I was talking to which were only girls and as well as for him….so we both agreed to delete our facebook so we won’t have any arguments which it did work…i recently found out he had made another facebook..he actually told me.(i think only because my friend might tell me first, so he told me first so he can get good points to survive my draft lol).so he said that he been having it for about 2 weeks..so I got pissed.and I checked his page and he had females..he says they are from school and that he didnt have sex with them nor kiss them..i dnt giva fuck because If i was talking to my guy friends from skool he wouldve been pissed..so he says Im making a big deal about it..and he keeps saying I have my status in a relationship…like females care about that..they will still try to holla at you..I know im jealous but damn I havent been jealous for awhile because I gained his trust but since he did an account behind my back I just feel mad and now I dnt know if i should trust hm now….He also locks his phone and I tell him to let me c what he has in the phone which I dont see anything but still if you dont have anything to hide then y is the phone locked…does anybody understand my situation lol ? I really love him and I live with him and have 2 kids. Should I MAKE a big deal out of this or should I ignore it..cuz I like revenge and I can make my account and show him how i felt…idk what to do….thanks

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Since you live together and have two children together, you need to put a stop to this drama. If you can’t trust him, you’re going to end up acting out your fear of losing him as controlling him and it’s going to play out on Facebook, the cell phone, and any other way he can communicate with women. In other words, this isn’t about Facebook. It’s about your ability to trust him and his ability to be faithful.

My advice is that you stop thinking about other women, and start working on the relationship you have with him so he doesn’t want to go out with anyone else or he doesn’t want to flirt with anyone else. Your relationship needs a shot in the arm, and it’s time for you to start working at flirting with him, dating him again (date night, weekends away — whatever it takes) and making him feel valued as your man.

I’ve written a book called Romantic Date Ideas that you should buy and read. It will give you some ideas on how to get the X back in your sex life and I think you could use that! Here’s the link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url].

Please let me know how it goes, and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

[Anonymous]

Well it was going good after I discovered a girls number on facebook, he asked for it..so I confronted him and he lied so I was like come on I know when you lied and then he said he did to see if he still has it going on..stupid guy. Idk I am getting tired of his games and I think I might leave him even if he decided to engage me….he keeps lying to me and all I do is cook for him and clean for him..everything..he lied that he went to the gym and went to go drink instead..I am fed up….how he expects me to have another child with him if he keeps playing with me….thanks for your advice! I am so stress…

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I hope you’ll follow the advice I gave you!

Also, please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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