[Anonymous]

hello,

im Steven, and i really like a girl.

her name is sophie, i met her 2 months ago through my friends, and since about a month, I’ve had a serious crush on her, every time i see her i just light up, and i feel like i get the same feeling from her but I’m not sure. last week there was a night where we had a very intimate moment but nothing happened, because i didnt want her to reject me, so i left. apparently 2 days ago she met some rich guy who took her on an amazing date by taking her to this amazing restaurant, and then went to his yacht, followed by going to his place.

the thing is; do i say something to her about how i feel even though she will be leaving in 2 months back to england, while i will stay here in hong kong?

[Ask April Masini]

If you don’t go up to bat and take a swing — AND risk rejection — you’ll never get a chance at a home run or even a grand slam. So whether or not this guy she met is a gazillionaire or a poet who lives in poverty, the difference between you and him is that he asked her out, and you gave in to your fear of rejection.

Risk that rejection, face your fear and ask her out — don’t tell her how you feel, show her. Dinner, a movie, a hike, a tennis match or any other activity where you invite her in advance, pick her up, show her a good time, and bring her home afterwards, is a way to get to know her, and allow her to get to know you. So go for it! Ask her out. 🙂

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