[soccbbvollbase6]

I was dating this girl for about three and a half months. Everything was going well, until about a couple weeks ago and she said things changed. She said she didn’t feel the same way as she once did for me, when we first started dating. She said she still cares for me and says she loves me, but is not in love with. She ended the relationship the other day. I really didn’t want it to end and I have been racking my brain over what I may have done wrong. But I really want her back in my life and get things to the way they used to be.

I am wondering what would be the steps to get back in my life, have her realize that I made a mistake and I have changed?

What do I do?

[LovingABrickWall]

Ha
I’ve been there, buddy.
Just try to talk to her, in a very nice and thought-out way, and see what you’ve done wrong,
Maybe she just needs time to adjust to you.

Basically, all I’m saying is that you should relax, and let her know that you love her, and just be yourself.
Try to impress her. Show her that you care.

That’s all you can really do. The rest is up to her. =/

[walterjohnson]

[quote]What do I do?[/quote]

Move on, pal.

The “she still cares for me and says she loves me, but is not in love with[sic].” is a hot steaming pile of b.s. For whatever reason, she does not want to be with you any longer.

[quote]I am wondering what would be the steps to get back in my life, have her realize that I made a mistake and I have changed? [/quote]

That only happens in the movies. You’re better off walking away like a man with your self-respect than you are begging and pleading with her to come back to you. It’s tough, but that’s what you have to do.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

I am here to help, and happy to answer any questions you have. 😀

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