Hi Lauren:
Your guy trouble is normal. It’s disappointing when a guy doesn’t want to see you as much as you want to see him. Unfortunately, it takes two people to like each other enough at the same time to make a relationship work. What you have are two people who like each other, but maybe not enough at the same time to make this work the way you want it to. Actions speak louder than words, and if he’s not calling….he’s not as interested in you as you’d like him to be. It’s impossible to force him to be interested in you, but there are things you can do that may tip the scale in your favor.
Most guys like to be the ones to do the chasing in any relationship so it’s important that you don’t start calling him or contacting him first. Let HIM be the one to go after you – which requires discipline and will power on your part. But you can entice him to want you by flirting with him and dialing up your dating self which I’m sure is new to you.
I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes — and join me on Facebook! I’d love to see you there. Here’s the link for AskApril.com on Facebook: [url][/url].
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